Keep traveling… Keep exploring…
Father keeps quiet, he never talks to you about anything, Everyone has feelings for Mother but, fewer feelings for Father
“It’s very easy to be a dad but it’s difficult to be a papa”
Father plans for the future, he has feelings for the family, he cares for the family, thinks about each and everyone in the family. This is the Gift to the father.
When I was traveling from Mumbai to Pune in first-class Deccan Queen, my Attire was simple as usual.
Some students were sitting in front of me, They were making fun of me, They were not knowing that I am Educated from Boston, London. After some time I called to steward and ordered some snack, I communicated with him in English as soon as after seeing and listening to me communicating in English they were shocked that my English was more fluent than their English, they came and accepted their mistake and were guilty. When I told them that ‘remember English is a language not a knowledge’ and stop taking money from your parents for your education
‘Earn and Learn’. After one month those students came to my place with their self-earned cars.
I was taking care of my mother even she was in bed for 11 years. My mother once expressed her wish of eating mangoes, in the month of December. I visited many places many fruit dealers only for that one fruit, Finally after a week of searching. I Found Mangoes at the cost of 3000 RS a dozen .the dealer asked me why are you buying this non-seasonal fruit within a second I replied that “My mother wished to eat mangoes.” As soon as I replied to him he offered me to take the mangoes free of cost. But I refused to take it free of cost and I paid him the cost of 1100Rs.
My father passed in the war (Indo-Pakistan War)of 1971. I found my father’s cadaver after 1 month.
My father never earned money for us, he taught us a lesson, and he also told us to be self-dependent and learn the lessons of life all by ourselves. His teachings actually taught us how one should live his/her life.
If you really want to do something for your father, do it now, do it every day, do it whenever you get a chance, stand beside your father in his hard times. Age doesn’t matter, ask him his problems. Try to keep him happy. If you do this much you will feel the crystal pleasure.
By the way… All the people here in this ashram are dead, they are only Alive because they are breathing. No one is happy here they just pretend to be happy. there are many serious reasons, for these people are living in this ashram.
Father’s and mother’s days are only emotions be practical with your parents I will say one thing “Don’t forget your parents”.
If you speak sweetly, you can overcome each and every problem you will face. After now I am going to the Himalayas.
Matoshri Vriddhashram, Karve Nagar, Pune, Maharashtra.